Please try to remember that the affair isn't "your" fight, and that your fight is for Baby G, and what is right for her...
From your past, you have experienced this. Reach down and try to remember what that young you would have wanted to hear...and needed
There is going to be a part of you that is going to feel 'validated" by this revelation. Just don't sit on that hill right now. Not even in thought. Those thoughts will lead your guidance.
You have always known and feared that eventually, G baby would see and understand who her Father really is at his core. And her rug has been pulled out from under her now...
This will be HER experience, yet your guidance now, is pivotal in her growth and development.
There is going to be no right way or wrong way through this.
Only YOUR way....
Everything that baby G is, is because of everything that YOU are for her....
She is who she is because of you...
And I have no doubt that she will come through this amazingly, once again...
Because of your profound love and guidance...
Don't hesitate to lean on anyone, we are all here for you...
