Thank you for the update. My sitch is doing fine. I still have my fingers crossed but we seem to have broken our hoodoo of getting p!ssed at each other every 2 to 3 months (over nothing), shutting down and hardly communicating for 3 weeks at a time.
I'm pleased to read that you are doing well and nearly up to 100% done on your 180's. 180's are a fantastic way of changing out ingrained and often undesirable behaviors.
I agree that from what you posted, your sitch is steadily improving albeit at a slow pace which is often the case in these situations. Besides, I'm sure that the patience and prayer that your sitch has bought on you will hold you in great stead for the rest of your life.
Before replying, I have read your other posts around the board and I will say a prayer quietly for your SIL. I'm a survivor of many years now, nothing a serious as your SIL but nevertheless fatal if it had gone to the next stage of speading.
Also too, I read your comments regarding the Lexus 'vs' VW thing. I believe that as our faith gets stronger, the more insidious are the attacks of the enemy. What you wrote sounded to me to be more than just jealaousy. I felt you came across as insecure of losing your W and in all honesty, why wouldn't you be.
I put this down to simply the enemy invading your thoughts. Being COGnizant of when the enemy attacks will enable you to recognize the lies and the truth is in the exact opposite of the invading thought. Once you can do this, the risk of thinking/saying the wrong thing totally disappears.
God bless you too COG.
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"
