Thank you to All, esp. Sandi2

[trumpet]

It's been a LOOOOOOONG time since I've been on the DB website.

I was in the thick of the pick-me-dance late in 2015.
Divorced as of May 2016.

Lots of things have happened - the EXWW remarried the guy she left me for, but realized he was a creep spying on all of my kids with hidden cameras - serving jail time now. There was plenty of reasons he was getting divorced when he struck up the convo with my EXWW! LOL. She's divorced him 9 months later and started dating a married man. Yikes. That tiger never changed her stripes.

It took a couple years after the divorce, but I healed. Lots of ups and down, a long-term girlfriend later, 2 of the 3 kids out of the house. Lots of counseling, knowing who I really am, getting better at setting boundaries, and being OK in my own skin - which is still a work in progress, and I gained the Covid 15 (although I never have had that nasty bug yet!).

I am forever grateful for those of you who were here 6/7 years ago. Sandi2 especially. I noticed she stopped posting last year, according to what I could find. I hope and pray all is well with her. There were many of you who chimed in back then. If you did, thank you. There is always hope - it's tough to see in the middle of the dark valley - but never give up that hope. God Bless. Trumpet