I had a medical complication during pregnancy where it wasn't clear if I could hemorrhage/die or need an emergent hysterectomy during delivery, and he said "you're worried about not having future children and I don't even want this one". Not a kind thing to say when your life is on the line or future reproductive rights.
That's a pretty awful thing to say. Remember, he's telling you who he is...so believe it.
Originally Posted by Newborn
when he talks about neighborhoods he wants to live in its wherever his friends live/recommend, restaurant choices are based on his friends' recs, etc
Not sure getting friends' input on neighborhoods or restaurants recommendations is a indication of anything bad.
Oh absolutely, I agree. Sorry if I wasn't clear enough: He takes recs but to the extreme. Eg, when his friend he spent a lot of time with was very religious the ex would go to bible study despite being a lifelong athiest and wearing a cross. When his other friend was a death metal fiend, Ex got his eyebrow pierced and would go to death metal concerts. When another friend was a yoga teacher and into astronology, ex started going to yoga teacher training and posting about astrology on his instagram.
The reason the neighborhoods/restaurants thing is weird is because his preferred neighborhoods in the past were based on what I liked. When he went to see his friends, all of the neighborhoods were what his friends liked. He doesn't have his own opinion I guess is what I'm trying to convey.
