I don’t agree D. Someone who is far along in the divorce process as he is, I don’t consider to be “cheating” on their spouse. If what he says is true (and we have no reason to believe it isn’t) then it’s all over but settling the final business part.
It’s a risk for G because there’s always a possibility if reconciliation (which doesn’t completely go away after a completed divorce), but there’s no evidence in this story that G would be culpable in any way in this divorce.
It’s an affair when you date someone who is in a marriage, not someone who has left the marriage and is far into the divorce process once they meet. Heck, my ex and I were only halfway through the 18 month process of our divorce when he met his current wife, but I never considered her an OW and Bear her no I’ll will. She wasn’t involved in our divorce and neither is G involved in this guys divorce.
