Running out of steam!

[COG]

I have been successful in going 100% on my 180's, and found a little success. An interesting exchange today. W dropped by my house to pick up K's this morning as planned. When we hugged goodbye she asked me if I knew what day it was (our 14th church wedding anniversay). (Side Bar: we did'nt have to, but we sort of eloped on valentines day and got married by a justice of the peace, then had a church wedding in June, so we used to celebrate two anniversaries.) Back to my story, so I sighed in disbelief that I forgot our anniversary. Me the guy who has worried and fretted over every other anniversay in the recent past, totally afraid and anxious that she would forget, or just not care. Now, here I am, I've let go!

Anyway, she gave me a warm hug, smiled softly at me and said, Happy New Relationship! Now I'm not going to read too much into this and expect anything more, but it sure felt gooooooood to hear those words and see her smile! She is beautiful. I did'nt push and force her to explain what "New Relationship" means. I just acknowledged and agreed with her.

One more baby step, and DB success.

COG