I like that he’s planning dates ahead. I’m just wondering how the “we’re just friends who kiss” conversation came about? 1) Was that him trying to push you away? Or 2) you trying to jump into the breach and reassure him that you could be that casual?
If it’s the first - we’ll, I’d say his actions are belying his words, and if you let him make all the moves and are careful to not always be available, he might come around sooner than you think. (On the other hand, Mr Big Lots, who was a classic Love Avoidant, pursued me with frequent dates in the first couple weeks before becoming more unavailable. )
If it’s the second - don’t sell yourself short and don’t be in a hurry convince a guy you’re “okay” with something that’s less than what you want.
