What I want right now is to enjoy time with someone. I’m not staring ahead at the future. So far he has shown me interest, consistency, ability to plan dates , etc. and it’s funny how the double standard is when a guy does do that he is “desperate and needy” and when they don’t do that they are “emotionally unavailable”
I just said there is a fine line between very interested and desperate and needy. Just like a fine line between who can say "you look beautiful".
Originally Posted by Ginger1
I think it is also assumed that men do the level of research on dating and attraction you do. But most do not. Sometimes they just do whatever is feeling right without paying attention to rule and time tables . Sometimes it backfires, sometimes it works.
I'd say it backfires more often. If this was CW you would be telling him the same thing.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
We are just 2 people who enjoy each others company ALOT me don’t feel the need to abide some rules. We like to spend time together.
This is making me feel uncomfortable.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
He likes me, I like him. We spend time together . If it was a girlfriend I would do the same. We don’t have a “once a week” rule.
What's the rush? Have you ever heard less is more? It's like when a stripper takes it all off in the first 15 seconds of the song.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
I am in this moment very happy with how things are going.
Fingers crossed
I guess I have to ask since you are so gaga. Did you sleep with him?
