Thanks for the feedback. I was in good shape, doing triatholons when we first met. I'm about 20 pounds heavier that I was then, mostly fat. I lost 20 after she dropped the bomb, but have gained it back. I could definately stand to loose a few. I already recognize that and have done a fairly good job on my wardrobe. I am currently training for a 10K run. It's not much but it keeps me in average shape. I think this would be a good time to step it up a notch or two though.
The hard one will be to stop asking her to take me back and give our marriage another go. Your right though, she knows what I want, I have been clear and relentless on that topic. So, I will push to perfect these 180's, and get my butt in better shape. Sounds like a plan.
Thank you so much for helping me find a direction and a means to my goal. My W is beautiful, she's a wonderful mother, and a good friend. She deserves a man that is handsome, humble, and supportive. Little by little, I think I'm gettin there!
Thanks,
COG
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