Single tired female too

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So I get because you have anxious attachment issues like CW you are always going to go from 0-60 in seconds if the man is leading you there. I have accepted it. Once concerns me is you believe everything you hear and see right out of the gate.

Let’s just say his interest level is high. And he is extremely genuine .

High interest or needy? How could you possibly know he is genuine after one meetup?

He will be away for a few weeks and D is away. I don’t think accepting a date 3 days later is going to make or break or us.

I actually agree. BUT (Mach) if he was genuine he would certainly wait.

He has been separated for a few months. They had been separated before that as well.

So if he was into self improvement he would have looked at dating while separated and would have learned that it probably isn't a good idea. I believe Wolfman dated while separated.

It’s a short term marriage and no children came from it. She was a manipulative binge drinker and abusive when she drank. He was done after giving her another chance .

Possible.

Papers are almost signed. He closes on his new place tomorrow.( he was not living with her in the meantime )

Papers almost signed is good. I believe that's what S was selling Andy P too.

We had a candid open talk last night.

Sure why not after a meetup lay the cards on the table?

He’s not the “I’m free woohoo type”

So remind me again how you know he is not the woohoo type?

but we both agreed that he does need his time single and to take a breather from everything .

Well as long as you both agreed.

We agreed to be friends that kiss, lol.

So is that FTK?

I have decided I am not going to have sex with him and I told him as much and he’s completely understanding .

I would totally test you on that statement to see if you were a woman of your word.

He’s seriously kind sweet and empathetic.

Awwww. Just like the Texan.

We know timing timing stinks.

Well that's why you don't go on dating apps when your married. It's bad timing.

Anyways, for the men out there. Does he have a good career stay fit and dress nice, and drive a decent car ? Yes. Ia that attractive ?

Oh thanks for letting us know a High Status male is attractive. We haven't heard that here.

Sure. But the most attractive part of his is his genuinity, not trying to be a certain way because he thinks that’s what women wants. He comes as his self .

You have no fuching idea who this guy is other than he is on dating apps while stilled married.

And we can sniff out when men are trying to be what they think a woman wants to be rather than just being themselves .

Like you sniffed out the Texan.

Vulnerability , honesty, good conversation that goes beyond the surface level. Very attractive.

Yes I agree. Just not on the phone call after a meetup.

His love for his family is as well.

How could you possible know he loves his family??????????

Look G the bottom line is like you said it will either work or it won't. But if it goes south and you can't come here complaining about your bad luck with men because you ignore YOUR own rules.

Having said all that I really hope it works out because he is a handsome man.