Man, this went from 0-60 in 3 seconds flat. From friends and leisurely seeing where it goes to ILU’s to anxiety.
I remember getting the above--I was going "0-60 in 3 seconds" when I had sex with K three weeks into dating and agreed to exclusivity four weeks into dating. To be clear, I hadn't said "ILU" or "GF/BF" yet. Others aren't in your shoes. If you're being open with these guys, and you're having a good time 4 out of 5 days, who cares what others think?
I've stopped writing about my dating adventures here but I had great sex Monday, had a great hike with her today, and am going on a day trip with her this weekend. I'm getting to know somebody and having fun. Enjoy your journey. Adjust if you often come home crying (as you had previously) or can't enjoy a night alone without chatting with guys.