Well… BECAUSE ITS NOT!!!!!!! Eight weeks? He has no business even dating. That’s at least what the old DB board would have told him. And ginger's rule was not to date anyone separated at all and date those only Dd for at least a year. I’m positive that was posted multiple times.
But this is better than no date at all? Is that what it is? Because clearly you’ve been on many more dates this year than I have - or at least it seems like it. And I guess if it’s just a date, something to do and that’s it, well no big deal. But we all know it’s more than that. A casual date is not what you claim to want - but it is what you’ll accept. Clearly multi hour phone calls is not casual. I think most of us know what a newly separated, not even filed (I think that’s the case) not divorced male is looking for. I mean Ray Charles can see this one.
Guys who show you some attention are your Kryptonite. You deserve better.
As for the scammer guy. Women have ghosted for far, far, far less. For some it’s standard operating procedure in place of just being honest and forthcoming. That’s not you. But in this case don’t just ghost - stop, block and RUN!!!
Please do not accept any less than you deserve.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
