Newborn,
Originally Posted by Newborn
And I've been in therapy - ex had told me I needed it, a job like mine is difficult in many ways, and it's been helpful.
Therapy can be very helpful, so I'm not in any way saying to stop, but also don't take to heart everything your Ex says. It's not uncommon for a WAS/WS to say the LBS needs therapy to gaslight them into thinking it's all the LBS's fault. It's very possible, perhaps likely, it's the WAS/WS that needs the IC more than the LBS. Again, keep up with therapy if it's helping you...but also don't let your Ex make you believe it's all your fault.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21