COG, aside from talking and being friendly, what have you and your W tried? Have you been in counselling? What books have you read? What books has SHE read? What did you do to implement what you read, and what was the result? Have the two of you just been trying to "muddle through" on your own, or have you sought help, and what kind?
I guess I'm wondering what kinds of "steam" have been applied so far?
