I dated within a few months of my ex leaving. BUT I had been DBing my marriage for years, had reconciled once before, my ex was a three time offender, and I was completely sure that I would never take hm back under ANY circumstances. I was done and really healed at that time - I had peace in my heart that I had done everything possible for my marriage, and peace that I did not want him back. Just because it took another year to complete the legal process of a divorce, I was more than ready to date and I did.
Some people's divorce drag out for a long time for reasons other than attachment. And some people went through the necessary emotional process before their ex left. I'm not saying it's common, necessarily - and it's a reason why you have to assess whether someone is truly done with their marriage or not.
This ^^^^
To the outside world...for me, the perception was that things moved quickly....
In reality...
I was 30 months post bomb, and had been ready for a while.....
The only "newness" was that information, to other people....
LH....
Keep going and you are gonna get your eyes scratched out by one of these women here....: )
I'm honestly unsure at this point if you are just randomly saying stupid Schidt to rile them up, or if you truly are having a hard time equating your version of what a Woman wants, to what they actually want...
???
Either way, I'm fine with it. Just seems to be a daily watch for the carnage from the train wreck.
B-lady is correct. The Forehead kiss isn't a trick or a ploy....
The difference between it being real and being a trick, involve being deeper than a "kiddie pool" with a massive hole in it....
And until you know the difference.....
I feel that your frustrations in the dating world are self induced.....
