Some uber liberal types think its childish to not be friends. Its a stereotype I know. But watch movies, media. Divorce is glamourized. But that being said. I have one life, and I want to enjoy it from now on. I think there is someone who has been her "friend" for a long time, since 80s. Music, art, always there during tough times. Cinnection via music, art, etc. Used to work together in Tv productuon Channel 5, went to college together, well same time for same program. She has been going to his bands gigs every so often. He has always been a person, red flag type. He is RN. And I even put him in the Navy in the 90s. Corpmsan. I know, as my BIL once noticed, he is always around her. Kids havent said anything about him. But, its done. Just a observation.