Single tired female

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MLCxH,

No, there is only separated. He is a legally married man, who is separated from his wife and not divorced yet.

I'm with you on the "still married" thing, but also separated two weeks with tons of mixed emotions is a lot different than separated 10 years and not D'd just because insurance / finances are more favorable. There's a middle point in there.

He may be done with his ex but he may need time to heal from his D. The statistics on rebound relationships are fairly well known.

Not saying she should date him - you make a good point which should be considered - but Ginger and I (and others here) have had our Exs last a long time with their affair partners. Those stats always seem a bit unfair to us.