I just saw your thread and sorry for not responding earlier.
Thanks also slowly for posting my previous links. You've done a wonderful job for me.
Love, I will check your thread and will give response. It may take a while so bear with me kay. but I have to caution you I am not very good with advice. I dont post much advise around the BB, I prefer to lurk and learn from other peoples' posts. Nevertheless I will try.
In the meantime, I agree with slowly that we cant put a time limit on this. I've put time limit on myself twice, at the end of six month mark and eight month mark and both 'deadlines' have passed yet I still am not ready to give H the ultimatum or do the after last resort. As you can see things are moving reaaaaaaalllllllllyyyyyyyy slowly for me with lots of backslides. I am still having backslides now. Just when I thought I am saying the right things/ do the right things, H gor upset with me and there he goes again, withdraw from me and refused to see me. I am already very close to the end of the tunnel yet I am feeling hopeless by the hour. It is true that they say that this is the most difficult stage of all.
Hang in there, it is a hard road indeed but one road that we have to take. There is no short cut if we want to reach that one destiny with our S. Will come back shortly.
Sometimes the very thing you're looking for is the one thing you can't see..
