Hi L4E - Patience, patience, patience. How long should yo give it - well, I learned NOT to set time limits, but to focus on my own feelings, priorities and be prepared to act/decide if and when things seem to absolutely go in the opposite direction.
Quote: The OW is started to pressure him about living at home and the time he spends with me. He hasn't told me he is ready to try again, he is still obsessed with her, but they are fighting a lot over the past few weeks.
It is important that YOU remain the most attractive life partner. It means continuing to make him feel GOOD about himself when he is with you. Flirting is good. Space is good. Letting him know you are interested, and WANT (not NEED) him. Slowly