the truth is shocking and it is true we just never know what is going on behind closed doors. And it goes to show, that the statistics, how ever terrifying they might be, are right. Sadly...
I do try to offer my advice to people in this situation, esp. having gone through the same thing myself. Very rarely is my advice accepted, but very often I get a "You were totally right, I so wish I heeded your advice."
I am not upset about people not taking my advice, sometimes lessons learned are best if experienced by oneself.
