I know what you mean! I was more irritated than anxious or nervous when she was dragged along! But i go for my kids and she goes because H goes.
It’s difficult to say, from what she said it very much sounds like she was under the impression that things are settled, we are divorced, that we just lived together but didnt have a relationship etc. but the lies arent my problem, i know what happened, ive seen the txts and i know the timeline. The truth is none of that matters, because he continues to lie, to her and even to me. He asked if he could take the boys to see his family for a couple of hours during my time, i agreed because they havent seen family since last summer!! But it turned out it was a bbq at her parents place. I mean i wouldnt have given up my time with the kids for that. He insists that he is buying on his own, in reality he is buying with her. Just very odd behaviour as far as im concerned.
Your right, i should go, i was planning on working overtime to put some money aside for a holiday for boys and i, but its only 3 nights!!!
