She said she was always anxious when she went to my kids swimming lessons and feels it would be good for the kids for us to correspond.
It goes to show you the LBS isn't the only one who feels anxious and uneasy. Sometimes we feel like we're the ones going through our emotions alone and the WAS/WS and OM/OW is just happy and carefree about life. I don't know why, but it gives me comfort at times to know it goes both ways.
Originally Posted by Gigi123
She said all the right things….in the interest of the children, we all want whats best for them etc.
If she really mean that she wouldn't be sleeping / living with your H! I guess if it's just assumed they're going to have an affair than do what's best for them in light of that.
Originally Posted by Gigi123
i guess the reality is that i do not want her there, certainly not on my time with the kids.
Yep, I get it 100%. Unfortunately not up to us.
Originally Posted by Gigi123
The boys are away for 8 days in august and im consodering going to italy for 3 nights with a friend.
DO IT!!! That's prefect GAL.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
