Charting My Course (Part 2)

[Ready2Change]

Glad to see the update.

As for the dating life, it has been nothing more than casual hookups/dates which has been working good for me and my busy schedule. It's pretty much been going as it always has during the single periods of my life, keeping it casual with different women rotating in and out of my schedule, until the universe decides to drop a special one in my lap that merits some movement toward monogamy. I'm feeling open to it when it happens but I don't pursue these things, they just happen in my experience.

I believe casual hookups after divorce are actually a good thing, especially for those that have only been with one person. Even those of us that had experience before our marriage need to figure out some things. I know I did.

I have always felt a little like a fish out of water here in that I was never really looking to save the MR and was really turned off by the W's behavior.

From my point of view, you were different than most of the male posters here. You already had the skill set that most here need/needed to learn.

I have to concede I suk at weighing in on other people's sitches but there is a better possibility of me responding to stuff on this thread if there anything about my sitch that raises a question that someone has. Not exactly how it's supposed to work but's that all I got right now. Hope all you good people are well and trending upward!

Not much new traffic these days. There is a lot less triage needed.

Many posters have posted a "What I learned" or "What worked for me" type summaries. I think one from you would be helpful to anyone reading it.

Regards,

R2C