Well, the last two weeks have been probably the worse to date....I don't react, but internally it's taking a toll.
Originally Posted by R2C
Then you still have more personal growth work to do.
Originally Posted by toughtimes180
In what sense?
Something out of your control is taking a toll on you internally. It is something you can reflect on and see if there are changes to your behavior, belief system, thought process etc. that can change how it is affecting you.
The reason I ask, is it feels like telling the victim in the torture chamber he has work to do because he can't handle it.
Did you watch any Peter Crone videos yet? You may find his philosophies helpful on this subject. There are lengthy (2hrs?) interviews of him by Kerwin Rae and Dr Rangan Chatterjee another post recommended and I found enlightening.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
