Well, the last two weeks have been probably the worse to date....I don't react, but internally it's taking a toll.
Originally Posted by R2C
Then you still have more personal growth work to do.
Originally Posted by toughtimes180
In what sense?
Something out of your control is taking a toll on you internally. It is something you can reflect on and see if there are changes to your behavior, belief system, thought process etc. that can change how it is affecting you.
The reason I ask, is it feels like telling the victim in the torture chamber he has work to do because he can't handle it.
I get what you are saying though, it's just that some days I'm not strong enough, other days, I manage well. It comes down to fear of her projecting some devious plan to conflate the D. In IC we talked about that and we discussed I need to be patient, and chill. I have the right legal process in play, let it's follow the course.
