Single tired female

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I honestly can’t explain why our sexual chemistry is so good.

This is interesting. The guy is labeled great after one romp in the hay. Maybe he had a good day? Or maybe you have to convince yourself that is the reason you are doing it?

I think sometimes it something that can’t be explained. It all just clicks. On that level. And guess what. No 6 pack, no 6 figures. And he is 5’8 on a good day ( I’m 5’3 and don’t need tall) .

If more women like you there would be more nuclear families, less depression and less INCELs running around this planet.

As for the emotional Connection ? Partially my walls and partially his. I know he isn’t ready or perhaps even capable of something serious right now. And I don’t want to get burned in that situation myself. So I’m sure are a bit emotionally unavailable to each other .

Have you asked him? Studley, what is this relationship to you?

Dude hasn’t reached out in 3 days. At all.

Get's some booty and goes cold. Pattern? We shall see.

This is what he did the last time . It would go like 5 days and I would reach out and he would respond right away. I communicated how I felt

I am guessing you felt really uneasy for those 5 days.

About that, but nothing changed and we parted ways. This time around I probably won’t say anything about it and just go about my business.

So you are good with him reaching out when he is horny?

Actually, I did make the decision yesterday I am going to talk to him about the child support. I never readdressed it, and part of it was not wanting to rock the boat, and the other part is pride. But this is ridiculous. $88 a week in this economy and k have our kid most of the time ? It’s becoming crazy expensive.

It's about time that a-hole pays his dues!

We agreed I would be the money job and he would be the benefits job. Well, that turned out well for me, lol.

I bet you eventually would have lost attraction for him.

As far as happiness comes from within. Yea, we have to make a choice to be happy. Some people can have everything in the world that you think would make them happy, but are still miserable. But really, happiness, excitement, sadness are usually fueled by outside sources. Do I rely on the external to dictate my moods? No. Can external things bring us an array of emotions? Absolutely!

So to change this you have to change your blueprint on what makes you happy.

I am content with how great my daughter is doing. I am content with my job. I am content with my friends. I feel a peace and calm when I think of certain things. And I feel unsettled and a bit of anxiety when I think about others. But overall, and everyone who knows me knows I am not a miserable person. My ex is a miserable person and asu daughter says “dad has anger issues” but he is generally happy when he finds things to make him that way

So you are by nature happy but unhappy and he is by nature miserable but happy. Weird world we live in.