I hope so. There wasn't much R TBH in years of marriage. I'll take respect from her over being liked.
I won't say there will never be an R with her. I will say she has to 180 like mad to get there. Given she'd rather sit on the couch and IM, and take phone calls in her room, I'd say D is the most likely outcome.
Thanks, Steve. Just needed to vent. In one week, I won't be thinking of my sitch at all.