I’m glad diner went well and you found the meeting worthy.
Originally Posted by Eagle3
It however didn't surprise me that I didn't see much of MLC H, but that G was present for almost the entire evening. (I know this sounds weird to non-MLC believers, but those who do will understand what I'm talking about)
Nice to hear that G was present and remained for the majority of the time. (And you get what I mean by that.)
Originally Posted by Eagle3
I especially noticed that he really wants to do his very best to restore the relationship with his children. He knows this will be a process that will take a long time, and even used the following sentence: I know all too well that it is much harder to glue a vase back together than to break it.
Now, that is an interesting and notable statement.
His realization and admission of his actions; his desire to make reparations; his effort to remain consistent in his behaviour (his words); all positive steps for him.
I kind of figured S17’s religion task had an affect upon Dad. His telling you it completely freaked him out is further than I’d thought though. He has hovered and bounced off rock bottom before. Time will tell if it sticks. Hoping the best for him and the kids. And you.
Originally Posted by Eagle3
Said he will do everything he can to get back to being the happy old person and father he was. My FIL told me afterwards that his words seemed sincere, that he would do everything he could to restore the relationship with his children and with me.
Words and actions. I hope they align.
Originally Posted by Eagle3
I wasn't nervous at all, which was a sign to me that I'm much further along than I thought I was.
Originally Posted by Eagle3
Most of all, I'm relieved, relieved for myself that I'm finally there. The fear, the anxiety in front of him has completely disappeared. Today I look at him as my ex-husband and I am sincerely at peace with that.
Wonderful!
It’s such a peace isn’t it?
Originally Posted by Eagle3
Yes, I still love him, but the feeling of love has taken another dimension. I can’t explain it differently.
Yep. Hard to describe. And a nice place to be.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
