bttrfly, your ex was the king of Plan B gaslighting.
and furious at Plan B when she wouldn't comply.
He's someone who has always followed his feelings, however illogical or irresponsible those became. And, he's someone whose impulse control got less and less as he got deeper into his misery. Horrible FOO Fighter (thanks Own) role models. Had plenty of positive role models to follow as an adult, but for some reason that went south in his existential crisis, and he opted for the FOO Fighter methodology of life.
It can be a mind eff if someone isn't able to get some distance and perspective.
We have plenty of examples, one right here on this Post D board, who imho are far more entitled to that crown than my ex.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
