Originally Posted by BL42
But, if I found a fantastic woman who really wanted a child of her own maybe I would be open to it. Who can say - you never know what the future will bring - but more and more I'm thinking I'm probably done having kids and I'm fine with that.

I can understand this. I thought I was a no to both until I met the Melbourne girl and then that became something I could see down the track, although I haven't felt that with others. I would love a daughter but understand that may not be in the cards for me.

Originally Posted by BL42
I know I'm loyal and willing to hold up my vows, but was naïve going into my marriage thinking both parties would do the same.

I hear ya mate. Don't lose those qualities though.

Originally Posted by BL42
You're encouraging your FWB to seriously date another man? Talk about detachment and DB'ing!

Absolutely, we have fun together and she's gorgeous but she ain't the girl for me. I'd love to see her happy.


Me: 41 W:42
T: 14 M: 11
S: 6

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