BL, not sure if you ever answered this, but the question is, would you have any more kids? Or get married again?
The woman I am going on a 3rd date with tonight is 39, which to be honest is a bit older than I have been dating, I've been dating 32-35, but she looks young which helps. She has told me that she realises children aren't for her now and would be happy to slot into someone's life who did already have them. So they are out there.
On the other hand, my Persian friends with benefits is 38 and desperate for kids and has always had a not date anyone with kids policy. But at her age she is starting to realise how limiting this is and has recently met a guy she completely vibes with and is now thinking about changing that policy. I had to give her a big kick up the backside to continue things with him because at this age, perfect just does not exist.
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"
