This time I’m going to just go with the flow . And if I decide I would rather pursue a relationship elsewhere, I will
Seems like the perfect approach.
Maybe he's just (understandably) busy w/young kids right now and things might flourish as his time frees up in the future. Or, maybe you'll find another relationship in the meantime. Either way you're enjoy life and happy. Sounds like the whole idea of detachment and DB'ing principles.
Last edited by job; 06/28/2203:01 PM. Reason: added link to new thread
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.