He has 1 ex wife and she is a kook, but their communication is better and they can coparent .
He drinks, but is not an alcoholic. He does not gamble. He plays guitar in a band for fun. He’s not needy at all. He is not racist. We actually have long time mutual friends.
We are not together because of KML’s reasons. He didn’t really put in effort to make dates. His life was too complicated at the time. He couldn’t give me what I wanted and understandably so. He wasn’t all about the effort, just to hang out when it happened to work itself out .
So we aren’t “together” for that reason. But he’s the one guy I had wished was at a different stage in his life. This time I’m going to just go with the flow . And if I decide I would rather pursue a relationship elsewhere, I will
