No such luck

[BL42]

Ginger1,

Did you have some wine tonight at this fancy steakhouse? Not sure I completely followed that update! lol

One that I really did like texted me today . The guy with a 6 and 3 year old. I liked him the most although we are in very different places on our lives.

I'll cast my vote for this guy - nothing wrong with a guy having a 6 and 3 yo! ;-)

The guy who was hosting sat across from Me. Super cute. Out of my league. And 35...But way too cute and young for me

You're early 40s. Why is 35 too young?

I am also guilty of swiping left on guys that I think would never have interest in me. I do think I might “date down” which means I probably am
Not there yet with my view of my own self worth. Maybe these guys are a safe spot for me? Although clearly not. I honestly couldn’t imagine a nice good looking well adjusted guy wanting to be with me. Or someone a step “above “ me, so I don’t even bother .

So this is something to explore with IC. Obviously don't know you and DejaVu6 in real life, but you two shouldn't be swiping left on quality guys because you don't feel worthy. You can't imagine a well-adjusted guy wanting to be with you? Time to work on that confidence and self-worth.

Yea, the Texan still is trying to get with me. But I can’t do it.
Too much drama. Don’t want to be on the roller coaster

Drop the Texan completely. No contact.