Bottom line is a woman cannot love a man she doesn’t respect and clearly she’s not being respectful. I don’t think she has any fear of losing you because you tolerate her continual abuse and sh!tty attitude.
I can't prevent what she thinks or says but I am enforcing my boundaries properly. One of which is to leave as soon as I hear something that is insulting. Does she fear that she will lose me? I don't think she does. It's a bit hard to do that in a coparenting scenario and still running the household together. I am not sure if I can do anything other than 180s and GAL - which might not give her the impression that she will lose me.
Originally Posted by Thornton
And if she wants to meet up with the OM, then use that as fuel to propel yourself into a badass new life without her.
Yes, that is for sure. But I do not know if she is intending to meet him. Regardless though I am expecting that and staying calm. I do have a boundary that I will D her if she meets the OM.
