Originally Posted by BL42
I know you've commented in the past you hope he isn't cheat / break up with OW for the sake of D14's stability, but is it alright if I secretly hope for it for you? That would be great validation for you and the karma he & OW deserve ;-)
What kind of validation would Ginger get? She knows she's better off w/o exh. She knows she is better than OW. Daughter has to go through another busted family. Karma for exh? He has an exw he gets along great with, a wife at home to split the bills and a side piece to go to the islands with on vacation. Maybe karma for OW but she too will learn she is better of w/o exh.

Originally Posted by DejaVu6
I realized recently that I have a habit of swiping left on guys who have “liked” me that I deem to be too good looking, too successful, too much younger than me (anyone with more than a six year age difference), too fit, etc…. If I am really honest with myself, I don’t do this because I think I won’t like them. I do this because I think they won’t like me…at least not longterm. So rather than open myself up to that kind of rejection, I just avoid it altogether.
Well now I understand a little better why Vu swipes right on 1 of 200.