Thanks for replying R2C!

I guess I want the input of others here. Has anyone had a similar situation that turned out well? Is it too broken at this point?

When I spend enough time away from him I'm ready to move on fully. Then I see him again and hope this will work out?

He's super into astrology and yoga and social media now - he seems like classic MLC and he isn't overall a bad guy, but has said some pretty cruel stuff and doesn't see it that way. He sees it as this mystical journey he's on, and diminished me in his mind so I'm not nearly as deep/interesting as his 20 something friends.