They do get frustrated when their divorce plans don’t go according to their script. There are going to be process delays here and there. XH directing you what to do, and how to contact your lawyer shows his agitated state.
I’m impressed with how you handled him (well, handled yourself in reality ). With no reported emotional upset or being emotionally dragged off to hurt and pain, you are well detached. It’s kind of nice when we get tested and we don’t even realize we were. And of course, you aced the test!
Enjoy the training, and I do think it will have the added benefit of pushing back your fog as well.
Originally Posted by Elbereth
It’s been too much for too long. I worry about the long term affects of this level of stress on my body. I feel like I’ve aged for sure.
I hear you!
I felt like that too. Then the fog clears, things get better and better. Then you buy some new runners since you haven’t bought new shoes in 15 years and the current ones are wore right out. You discover shoe stores have around 2.4 gagillion types of runners! You find one’s that fit and feel sooooo comfortable. And find out they only come in red. LOL. Really?!? The less colourful runners don’t fit as well. So now you sport red runners. And they stand out. Ha. Then one day you find yourself walking and playing with the dogs down the lane. Then suddenly running with them as they bark and chase. And you realize that somewhere along this path that the feeling of aged - flitted away.
Don’t fret too much. As the stress decreases we return pretty good. Kind of amazing how resilient we actually are.
And red running shoes help. Haha.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
). With no reported emotional upset or being emotionally dragged off to hurt and pain, you are well detached. It’s kind of nice when we get tested and we don’t even realize we were. And of course, you aced the test!
