I also want to thank you for reading my post and responding with an open mind.

As I said at the start of my post, you are a great mother and person. I want you to be happy and so I was giving feedback that could help you improve yourself instead of just saying uplifting things. The intent was not to be harsh or take away from the many positives you have. And yes, I am possibly wrong about some things since I only know you through your posts here so take the advice with that perspective in mind.