I like the idea of not ever seeing her or anyone else for that matter
The weekly club is an opportunity for me to see my kids extra time, i dont really want to give it up and i enjoy watching them progress as well.
Would it be worth speaking to the kids about this? This has come from H, and unfortunately he has a tendency to tell half truths or manipulate situations. S6 has adhd and he processes information in a certain way also, and if presented with something in a certain way he will repeat that to people. So his words to me around being nice to everyone so he is liked probably come from H, s6 can be incredibly unkind and cruel himself to others due go his Adhd which affects his behaviour and ability to control his emotions. S8 on the contrary is kind and considerate but has previously said he couldn't care less if i speak to her.
I want to be adult about this, but im stuck on how to move forward with this considering that we havent spoken in over 2 years.