Yeah, the one on one is to be logistical and kids only. Since STBXW doesn't have a good track record of boundaries, it's something I need to be careful with. She can easily use it as a forum for other things since at the moment all face to face conversation outside of day to day has been shutdown.
I am TOTALLY looking forward to life and parenting without her. I've had a taste, and I love it. It's what keeps me positive about the future. My mindset was there a month ago, and I will be fine.
ATM she's saying she wants to come with a PRIVATE proposal. For what, I dunno, Parenting Plan, settlement? I suspect she doesn't like how mediation didn't go well for her. I'll keep an open mind, but I'm prepared that it's a bypass attempt. She's been quite inflexible about setting the next date . . . The stick is that if mediation fails, I can get a legal document that asserts the failure and I can then go the legal route through the courts. I do not want to, but I'm not afraid if I have to.
