We agreed in meditation to have weekly one on ones regarding kids, and I'm actually dreading this.
As far as one on ones with the kids, I assume one parent has two kids while the other gets the one on one time?
I read it to be one on ones between toughtimes180 and STBXW to discuss items related to the kids.
toughtimes180 - Not saying you have to have weekly one on ones, a lot can be handled over email, but you two do have young children and are going to need to communicate with STBWX about items for quite a long time, so best to get used to that. I agree w/R2C in not focusing on STBXW. Maybe she'll have "explosions", maybe she won't - but it's in the future and you can't control it, so no sense worrying about it.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
