We agreed in meditation to have weekly one on ones regarding kids, and I'm actually dreading this.
As far as one on ones with the kids, I assume one parent has two kids while the other gets the one on one time?
I would suggest getting the exchange day/times concrete and the child rotation set. Yes there will be exceptions but exceptions should be fairly rare. I either had all three, or no kids. I always enjoyed my one on one time with each of my kids when I was able to get it. Focus on the fact that you and each child can make great memories together, not what their mothers interactions and behavior will be like. Changing your mindset changes everything.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712