Yes we are very amicable. Strange huh. She digested it , was a little taken aback. But, she went right into planning mode. Family, insurance ( health care is what I am financially assisting in), animals etc. No real change. I think it will hit her later, much later due to work. Realtor, 24/7 right now, and her life is focused heavily on getting income. I just needed to move forward.. I am