Been thinking about your plight through this all, and your history of dating....
I would imagine that you come across to many prospects out there as intimidating as hell.
They see you, and want to try it. Like you are some kind of a lifetime achievement award for them. Then they get to know you and they find out that you really aren't all that you advertise.
You are more....
We go through this DB stuff, and we become these people who aren't (well, most aren't) afraid of ourselves, or the truth, or hearing the bad and finding a way to turn that into a positive in our lives...
Most people that we meet in our lives are nowhere close to where we are in terms of being self aware, self correcting, self motivated to do better. We should be communicating better, not reacting to our emotions, and striving to do better in every situation that we come across....
And that's a pretty intimidating hill to try and climb for anyone that hasn't done that kind of work on himself......
be in touch with my emotions? WTF is that about, I'm out of here !!!
I would imagine that you come across a lot of "Hobosexuals"....
Men looking for sex and a place to crash.....lol
I've said this to you for years now....JUST BE YOU, and stop trying to define where you are in a relationship.
Remember Einstein's definition of insanity, and you have been doing the same things over and over....and the results ?
By nature, and who you are....
You are intimidating to most normal men. We are typically stupid, and want to be "the man" in a relationship....
Odd, because we often fail.
You are worth it,, you are intelligent, you are beautiful, you are courageous....
And I am pretty sure that any guy would rather go through an IRS investigation rather than Little G do it....
Men fall in love using their eyes.....Women fall in love using their ears....
