Hey, Just a quick update. Papers have been sent via lawyer for finalization via the judge.. Its been a while, and I will be honest. Its a tough decision to get divorced, very tough. Especially with emotions you have had for someone for many years, for some decades. I feel like I had to focus on a weigh and close scenario to just do it.. So, I did. I started to focus on what I did not like about her, and the fact those things wont change. Kind of mean, but it helped me make a decision. Not sure if that is the recommended way many here would go about it, but it worked for me. After doing the weigh and close, I realized I was holding on to things that were minor and not worth it. Most were old images, times of us.. I did look at me too, trust me. I am no prince, and I am sure she did the same for many years. Any ways, she and I are done. She was definitely the one who moved forward much quicker than I , but that is neither here nor there important now. I appreciate all the time people have spent with me trying to assist, as you all did help steer me.
