I’ve been wondering how you are doing, and I’m glad you are hanging in there and work is going well. D is right, no need to rush any decisions. Be patient with yourself and make the decisions when you have the time/focus to think them through. There is so much emotion right now that it’s okay to be in a fog. And you may need to accept that it might be hard for a while…but don’t let that stop you from moving forward. Just accept it so that you can be easy on yourself. You are dealing with a lot. It’s okay to not feel good about it and find it all confusing.
Hang in there and just keep doing what you are doing. The future will be brighter, even if it’s not the future you imagined.
El
Me 52, H 56 T10 M7, 2nd MR for both 2 Step Sons (19 and 21) BD: Fall 2020 D finalized: July 2022 XH Married AP soon after D day.
