The L is contacting STBXW because her view of financial settlement isn't realistic. I've a month of back on forth on stupid nuances of Family Law. It shut her up.
With the upcoming Parenting Plan, she's angry at so many things. At the request of the mediator we emailed family statements, and I called her out that "sharing common rituals" is not on the table; we are separated. Of course I get the response that "I don't want that either, shared birthdays only under duress, after you accused me of DV, I struggle to see our shared humanity."
After Parenting Plan, I'm out of the house. I've been repeatedly told that it doesn't affect any sort of rights.
tough, just keep the L engaged. Sounds like you got a good one. Glad to hear that after the PP you can move out and not have it affect anything. Sounds like you've got a plan here.
I think unfortunately she'll continue to ramp up the nastiness. I think the history between the two of you will be hard for her to let go of as she thinks she can continue to throw hissy fits to get you to do what she'd prefer. Great job on sticking to your guns.
So how is GAL going?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
