I finally got L to engage STBXW. She had a little protest on sms asking if it was a mistake, why are they asking for this information. I just replied "no mistake. You can ask any questions to them directly."

I guess she gets it, the communication is now very minimal, I don't get much emotion back. I'd go so far to say almost pleasant, definitely tolerable.

I have mediation for a Parenting Plan this weekend. It'll be the true test to see if publicly she will negotiate, or if she'll be as unreasonable as she has been in the last two months. Once I know what I'm looking at there, I will immediately hit rental listings for a unit and move out asap.


Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48