Need advice: wife of 10 years wants out (2)

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I wouldn’t be making any rash decisions about further children for many years.

I feel that you don’t appreciate how abusive this person is.

I would recommend you get some professional IC to explore these issues with more depth.

While you applied DB principles very well and she has wobbled somewhat, she still knows she has you in her back pocket, and I don’t think a reconciliation with this person is a good idea.

Just my 2c. IHS is brutally difficult, and it’s going to wear you down emotionally very quickly.

Did you kick her out of the bedroom? Time to start making some power moves.

Trying to get there. She herself says she wants to stop and then she tries to seduce me in various ways.

That’s BS. Either you’ve stopped or you haven’t. Who cares what she tries to do. IMHO you need to respond with some conviction.